Steve’s Suggestions for the Single Lady

August 13, 2009Edward Bowserbooks, columns by Karie, love life, Single in the City0

Contributed by: Karie

Earlier this spring, Steve Harvey released his book of knowledge-the dating edition. His solid advice quickly became popular among the ladies. Act Like a Lady: Think Like a Man should be a staple for all women. His work provides insight into how men think. That information is a rare find!

Some of the more popular themes from the book include the 90-day rule, 3 important questions, and the 3 Ps:

The 90-day rule: Simply put, Steve recommends that ladies wait at least 90 days before sharing your precious goods with the potential mate. After the first thirty days (or so), guys tend to show their true intentions. The 90-day period gives you enough time to determine if what he says matches up with his actions.

The 3 most important dating questions: According to Steve these questions are designed to help you decipher what the potential guy thinks about you and the relationship. (Steve explains when to ask these questions in the book.) 1. Where do you see yourself in the next few years? If he sounds settled and ready to begin a family, etc., his answers should denote those items as his major priorities. 2. What do you think about me? Harvey suggests asking this question around the second or third date. The guy’s answer should indicate if you’re the type of woman he envisions to share his life. 3. How do you feel about me? A guy’s answer could help determine if he sees you as a friend or a potential life partner.

The 3 Ps: Steve’s mantra on men describes the three simple acts a man does when he’s enamored and ready to settle — Profess, Provide, Protect.

Steve’s book restates what women may have heard several times growing up (and going through), but it delivers without the sugar-coating. If you haven’t already, add it to your library. It may take you 10 hours to read, but it’ll save you from months and hours of tears, wondering why he isn’t the one.

About the contributor: Karie (pronounced like Marie with a “K) is a single, 20-something living in the DC Metropolitan area. Professionally, she works as a technical writer. Outside of the office, she enjoys graphic design, creative writing, reading, and tennis. Please contact her at tracykarie@yahoo.com.

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