7 Steps to Successful Public Speaking
In 2010 Vikki Grodner of the Birmingham-based event planning company The Grodner Group started what she calls New Girls Network. Grodner told The Birmingham News that the New Girls Network is “our version of the good ol’ boys network, a way for women to gather and learn from each other.”
2. Don’t forget fashion. If you’re speaking before a group or on television you need to chose the right outfit. Seriously. While crazy shoes, dangly earrings, and eye-catching head wear may be distracting, Francavilla recommends wearing bold, bright colors. These shades help you appear more confident. Also, be sure to wear something you feel good in.
3. Practice. How you sound is important. Duh! So make sure you enunciate and project your voice. Record and listen to yourself to figure out ways you can improve.
4. Be hands on. I’m a person who talks with my hands, something I always thought was a problem. Francavilla, however, says it’s not. Natural hand gestures make you seem more open and approachable.
5. Make eye contact. Don’t be scared!
6. Think of Mom. OK, so let’s say you are scared. One thing Francavilla says can help calm you is to imagine you’re speaking to someone you care about.
7. Ask yourself, what would Jesus do? No, I’m not saying you need to preach to your audience. Francavilla says the best speakers, the best communicators are not only authentic and relatable, but they’re also good storytellers. She gave political examples such as President Barack Obama and President Ronald Reagan. And Francavilla reminded us that one of the reasons Jesus’ message was so powerful was because he spoke in parables. Yeah, he performed miracles, but the man could tell a good story. So people listened.
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